About
I’m a writer, a porn star, and a teacher. I’ve won awards for all three things, and am grateful and still astounded by that. I’m an anthroposophist and nice fella.
Please feel free to contact me about whatever’s on your mind. My email is:
connerhabibsocial at gmail dot com
My twitter is @ConnerHabib and my Tumblr is ConnerLovesEveryone
Here’s some stuff I like:
anthroposophy, ass, astral body, biology, Blur, boys that read books, (The) Cardigans, cartoons, confidence, dick, Discovery, etheric body, evolution, exhibitionism, forests, (Dion) Fortune, fucking, Fun., Gabriel, Godzilla movies, Goetheanum, (Blake) Harper, hating governments, (Patricia) Highsmith, I body, Is it true?, Isis, (Sarah) Jaffe, Jem and the Holograms, Justice League, karma, kissing, (The) Knife, London, love, (David) Lynch, (Lynn) Margulis, Michael, mineral body, naps, Night Marchers, nuts, occultism, oceans, outside, Panic! at the Disco, (Harold) Pinter, pornography, public sex, qualitative science, questioning everything, quorum sensing, Raphael, reading, Rosemary’s Baby, San Francisco, Sleigh Bells, (Rudolf) Steiner, theatre, truth, turn it around, understanding, unity, Uriel, Vampire Weekend, vegetarianism, voyeurism, (James) Welch, (Joy) Williams, working out, (The) XX , XXX, x-ed out bullshit, y’all, Yank Crime, you and me, (Slavoj) Zizek, zizzer zazzer zuzz, (The) Zombies
Dear Conner, greetings from Europe, where I’m sure you have as many fans as in the US. You’re really something else. I’m a tremendous fan of yours, I find your performances unique in all of gay porn, mainly because you’re so natural and believable and make most other actors seem phony. I love the way you “power-bottom” but always with feeling and grace; I myself definitely prefer that position and it means a lot to have someone like you “out there” (or merely on my computer screen) sending such a positive message. Your blog is fascinating; I’ve read every post and I marvel at your incredible ability in expressing complex (and fleeting, hard to pin down) feelings and thoughts. Carry on the amazing work! Your truly admiring fan, Fred.
Conner, I find your blog very intelligent and well-written. You are eloquent
and convincing, and wonderfully honest.
I’d like to speak to you about a book project, pls. let me know if interested.
Marten
Conner,
I stumbled upon your blog earlier today for the first time and have to admit that, after getting hooked and reading almost a year’s worth of posts, your entries are some of the most well-crafted, honest, and poignant works in any genre I’ve read in a long while. The insight you provide strikes a lot of chords with what it’s really like to be a young gay man, and rings true in ways that nothing else I’ve read has. I must say that, as a young gay undergrad, and without recognizing you from porn (not meant to be depreciatory), I now definitely look up to you, respect your work, and will continue checking back for new entries.
Wow buddy, that means so much – When I was an undergrad, I was freaking out with sexual frustration and would have felt so happy to find someone whose voice lined up with my principles and feelings. What a great compliment, buddy. Thank you!
Connor,
Just found your blog. I love it and will continue to read it.
Just refound you buddy – my facebook profile got shut down for a while then I saw you were no longer on there. Glad to see you are alive and kicking (and thinking).
I just found your blog and I;m happy I did. Bookmarked!
Hi Conner,
I still don’t understand what the purpose of your life is.
I cannot find it on your posts so far.
Please tell me…
It’s very very important for me to know it.
Thank you.
You have a wise, old soul; do keep blogging.
I read tour article “Rest Stop Confidential” in SALON (march 29,2012). Very existential a la Jean Genet. Your words are as handsome as you.
Ha, why thank you Jimmy
i just finished reading your rest stop essay, and i must say i was very impressed. you expressed feelings i’ve had all my life. i, too, have had endless encounters of this type, as well as in adult movie houses, bath houses, city parks, etc. of course, i’m a much older man than you, so many times these were the only places in town two (or more) men could meet. thank you so much for your intelligent take on this aspect of the sex search. i’ve discussed this with gay friends before and they have always taken a negative slant on it. many times i felt belittled by them. if someone of you status understands and has experienced these chance meetings, i don’t feel so isolated and lonely. by the way, i was an english teacher for 35 years, and i would not hesitate giving you an a+ on your writing. i’ve been a fan of your videos, and now i’m also a fan of your writing. thanks, and keep up the good work!
Hey there Ted,
Thanks for the kind words – the A+ feels great haha
CH